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Tuesday, November 23, 2010

There is too much going on these days...

I wanna know why everyone is always in such a rush for everything. Even me, when I leave my house on time I still find myself in a rush. When I am eating, I find myself rushing. Even with love, what is there to rush? Why do we always have to rush?

If you like someone, then like them but don't rush it. Take the time to get to know them, learn them, know what there likes and dislikes are. Who wants to date someone they barely know?

If you love someone then why rush to marry them? If they love you back then they will always love you, right? There is no ticking time bomb, at least not one that I can hear. Don't you want to enjoy this moment of life? 

There is no right or wrong time to get married because you never know, but it cant hurt to wait till you know the person. Love and infatuation feel so similar yet are completely two different things. 

There is no messing this up, no "do over" because divorce is NOT an option unless cheating or abuse is a factor. 


Have you been looking for a few new places to spice things up? here are 102 places to have sex! 

  1. On a porch swing.
  2. Inside an unknown rocky cave or limestone cave.
  3. In the weight room at your gym.
  4. In your not-yet-finished new build house.
  5. On the hood of your car on a deserted gravel road.
  6. On a pool table.
  7. On top of the washer... while it's running.
  8. On a soft rug in front of a fireplace.
  9. On a secluded island beach.
  10. In the backyard under the stars.
  11. In the woods after it rains.
  12. On a motorcycle.
  13. In a public restroom.
  14. In an airplane restroom -- join the mile high club!
  15. On a train in the middle of the night.
  16. In bed with silk or satin sheets.
  17. In bed with rose petals all over.
  18. On the beach at night.
  19. In your lover's childhood room while their parents are home.
  20. Outside in the rain.
  21. In a hot tub.
  22. On the deck of a yacht during a full moon.
  23. Under a rainbow.
  24. On a trampoline.
  25. On top of a hill.
  26. In the middle of nowhere.
  27. In the car during heavy traffic.
  28. In the car on the side of a deserted road.
  29. In a hotel.
  30. In a state park.
  31. On a waterbed.
  32. On the loft in a barn full of hay.
  33. In a field full of wildflowers.
  34. On a rooftop.
  35. In an open field at night.
  36. By a waterfall with the water misting all around you.
  37. Under a waterfall.
  38. In your partner's bed.
  39. In the garage.
  40. On a jungle gym at night.
  41. Outside during sunset.
  42. In the car going through an automated car wash.
  43. On your patio, balcony, or deck on a starry night.
  44. In the mountains.
  45. On an abandoned air field.
  46. Under the full moon in wet grass.
  47. On a porch swing.
  48. In the living room during the day with the windows wide open.
  49. On a blanket beside a lake.
  50. In an elevator.
  51. On the bathroom floor.
  52. In your partner's parents room.
  53. In a sauna.
  54. In a very big bed.
  55. On the top bunk of a bunk bed.
  56. In a tent.
  57. At your office.
  58. On your office desk.
  59. On a boat deck with the waves gently rocking you.
  60. In a tree house.
  61. In a department store restroom.
  62. In the restroom at a restaurant.
  63. In a hot air balloon.
  64. In a room filled with lit candles.
  65. In a bathtub.
  66. In the shower.
  67. In a canoe on a river.
  68. On a baseball diamond at night.
  69. In a swimming pool.
  70. At the bottom of the grand canyon.
  71. In a beach house with a light breeze gusting outside.
  72. Off a beaten trail in the woods.
  73. In every room of your house.
  74. On a chair.
  75. On an air mattress.
  76. On your kitchen table.
  77. In a screened in porch in the middle of a thunderstorm.
  78. On a hotel balcony, covered with a fuzzy blanket.
  79. In a sleeping bag under the stars.
  80. On a paddle boat on a lake.
  81. In the bed of a truck on a hot summer night.
  82. In the ocean... ride the waves.
  83. In a room filled with balloons.
  84. In front of a video camera.
  85. In an abandoned barn on the hay wearing nothing but cowboy boots and a cowboy hat.
  86. On an old sheet with chocolate body frosting.
  87. On a bed surrounded by pillows.
  88. At a bed and breakfast.
  89. On an amusement park ride... tunnel of love, in the dark?
  90. In the back of a limo.
  91. Next to a campfire.
  92. On a golf course.
  93. In the car at a drive-in movie.
  94. On really plush carpet.
  95. In your house during a thunderstorm, with a window open and rain misting in.
  96. On a picnic table.
  97. In a hammock.
  98. On horseback.
  99. While scuba-diving.
  100. On a ferris wheel when you're stuck at the top.
  101. At a rest area.
  102. In a corn field

On a mission to find a cute outfit like this. You can see many more on her look book! 


  1. its hard not to constantly be rushing around, but its nice to remember to sloooow down. woo-eee. also, i love the video of the sea otters. they are my favorite animal. i live in alaska and think they are the cutest animals we have! awe...

  2. thats so funny you say that because I had a client come into work today and she said "I would rather live in alaska then here" Here being miami florida. How is it out there?

  3. Now, when a spouse is a pathological liar, is that categorized under "cheating" or "abuse"? Personally I'm leaning more toward mental/emotional abuse.