"I have a really big crush on a girl I work with, but she has a boyfriend. I know I shouldn't push trying to get to know her more but I can't help it. Is it wrong for me to be a "nice" guy while shes dating someone? Is there anything I can do to make her like me?"
Well kiddo, I think being a nice guy is about the best you can do at the moment but don't be too overly nice. Girls can sense the "I-like-you" vibe a mile away and a good friendship can quickly go stale if she gets a big wiff of that. You can offer lunch sometimes but not always. A good way to look at it is through Jim Halperts eyes from the office. He even continued dating woman even when he had really strong feelings for Pam. Be funny and carasmatic. Don't be some creepster that stares at her from your far cubicle. If it doesn't work out, at least you have a friend, right?
"My boyfriends birthday is about a week away, what should I do for him for his birthday?"
For a party? everyone loves surprise parties. You can do it at a house but if it is a special day (As birthdays always are) make it somewhere interesting like a local national park or lake. bring a foot ball or a frisbee. Pre-make burgers the night before and nicely serran wrap them so it cuts more time off of when you are setting things up for the big day. as far as a gift (as if sending out the invites and bringing the beer isnt enough) get him something small that hes been meaning to get but really hasnt had the time. You can also get a bra + pantie matching set and place a preview picture in his birthday card for whats coming later that night.
Sex position of the day!
In the Viennese Oyster position the receiver lays on their back with their lower back and legs raised all the way up so that their ankles are crossed behind their own head. The exact end position will depend on the flexibility of the receiver. This position totally exposes the groin area to the giving partner who lays atop the receiver to perform. The giver moves up and down on the receiver to create friction. The giver needs to use their hands to support their own body weight so as not to crush the receiver.
This position requires considerable flexibility on the part of the receiver and it cannot be (fully) achieved by most, but it is wonderfully "naughty" due to the feeling of being totally exposed. Those less flexible might try getting into the position, but stop at the point where the position starts to become uncomfortable. The giver can also help those less flexible by using their hands to support the receiver's thighs at mid-point.
I know todays post is semi-short but i am currently watching "Blue Valentine "
With Adriana and so far its making my heart ache and I'm only 25 minutes into the movie... expect a full review tomorrow along with some other goodies.